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Wednesday 28 October 2015

Parents and children. Copy and paste.





Well, the children imitate everything adults do. Indeed, it is the first way to learn.

It begins in the family and continues, over time, other "socializing agencies" - the neighborhood group, school, TV, the Internet, and so on ...~

Ah, family ... is the place where everything happens. Father and mother, a father or a mother, two fathers or two mothers, educators in the asylum, whatever, are crucial in the transmission of patterns of thought and behavior. Even without aware of it. Even when they judge not. Even when they want to teach A and, after all, teach B.

The child sees, hears, feels and does the same. Those adults are his life, his model, his example. They are his Instruction Manual.

And what does he  see? The words they use. The gestures they make. Their actions.

How parents love each other, how to get angry, how to behave when separated. How to love their children, how to get angry with them, how they treat them in a separation. How they view working life. How they view school life. How they behave in public space. In traffic, in rows of shops, before the figures of authority, in relation to an insult or aggression, face to foreigners, given the weaker...How to behave in the political space.

That is why it is so challenging to observe a family. There is there a common model, speak the same way, smiling likewise, have similar body positions, moving the same way. Impressive.

Thus, children will repeat throughout life, what they have learned here. The chosen wife or husband will have hints of their father or their mother. And teach their children what they heard, saw and felt.

Sometimes in adolescence and adulthood, they may try to separate themselves from these models. But in a crisis, there will out what was impregnated in their skin.

Finale. We're screwed!

A strong video. To be always present.





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